Summary of Love Worth Making: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship by Stephen Snyder M.D.

Ah, Love Worth Making, a title that sounds like a promise and a half! Dr. Stephen Snyder, M.D. takes us on a journey through the sometimes bumpy, often hilarious, and occasionally awkward road of keeping the spark alive in long-term relationships. Spoiler alert: it's mostly about getting really, really good at sex-even if you're not sure how to pronounce "eroticism" without blushing!

So, what's the deal? Dr. Snyder isn't handing out magic pills or secret recipes (beyond those involving a little more spice in the bedroom). Instead, he dives headfirst into the tangled web of intimacy, offering a roadmap for couples who want to keep their sexual connection as fresh as that pair of new sneakers you thought would make you run faster.

First on the agenda: communication. Yes, that scary C-word that makes many people break out in a sweat like they just ran a marathon. Snyder emphasizes that talking about sex isn't just a good idea; it's imperative. Turns out, your partner isn't a mind-reader. Who knew? He suggests that couples have regular sex talks-yes, that's a thing-and get comfortable discussing what works, what doesn't, and everything in between. Just try not to discuss this over dinner; your spaghetti might end up as awkward as your last post-coitus conversation.

Next, he flips the script on the common perception that great sex is all about variety-those sexy costumes and spicy locations you see in movies? Nope! Snyder believes that consistent emotional connection is the real MVP, even if that means figuring out how to communicate your desires while strapped into a giant teddy bear costume (hey, we don't judge!).

But wait, there's more! Snyder also explores the science of desire-yes, this isn't just your average "how to" guide. He talks about how desire can fluctuate over time, making it more like a rollercoaster ride than a steady train (and we've all had those gut-wrenching turns, haven't we?). He outlines practical techniques to reignite that flame, from mindfulness practices to genuinely thinking sexy thoughts-not just after the lights go out.

Now let's address the elephant in the room: intimacy and aging. I know what you're thinking-"Great, so I'll be old and still trying to be sexy." Spoiler alert: yes, you will be! Snyder reassures us that it's possible to maintain a juicy sex life as you grow older. Thank you, Dr. Snyder, for saving us from the fate of awkwardly staring at our feet in silence while waiting for the next royal baby news to drop.

Throughout the book, Snyder shares anecdotes from his practice, because nothing says "I know what I'm talking about" like real-life stories. Our author offers tools and tips-as well as a hefty dose of humor-making this book less of a lecture and more of a delightful chat with that wise friend who also happens to be a doctor.

By the end of the book, you might wonder if you've just had a conversational romp through the deep and murky waters of relationships and sexual satisfaction. And hey, if your partner isn't interested in reading it, just leave it casually open on the coffee table-nothing says "I want to talk" like a cover page that screams How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex.

So, whether you're single, dating, or knee-deep in a long-term relationship, Love Worth Making is here to unlock the mysteries of desire and help you have the most ridiculously great sex of your life. Buckle up, it's going to be a hilarious, eye-opening ride!

Maddie Page

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