Summary of Seeking Wisdom: Preparing Yourself to Be Mentored, by Edna Ellison and Tricia Scribner

Unlock the secrets of effective mentoring with 'Seeking Wisdom'. Get ready to embrace personal growth and learn how to attract the right mentor!

If you've ever thought about getting a mentor, congratulations! You're already ahead of the game. Just think, it's like hiring a personal trainer for your brain-only this one won't make you jump through hoops (or run a 5K), unless you consider the hoops of wisdom and guidance. In Seeking Wisdom: Preparing Yourself to Be Mentored, authors Edna Ellison and Tricia Scribner take us on a remarkable journey through the land of mentorship. Prepare yourself for some serious brain food served with a side of practical wisdom and a sprinkle of common sense.

First off, let's get one thing straight: if you're not ready to be mentored, then don't even think about it. The authors emphasize the importance of being "ready" (which is code for: you need to do some soul-searching first). You can't just waltz into someone's life and expect them to bestow their vast knowledge upon you if you're not mentally prepped. So, grab a notebook (or some sticky notes) because you'll need to reflect on your goals, aspirations, and all-around life choices.

Ellison and Scribner break it down into bite-sized pieces. They discuss the art of asking questions, which is funny because most of us are really good at asking them. Whether it's "What's for dinner?" or "Why does my cat stare at me like that?"-but when it comes to asking our mentors the right questions, suddenly we get all tongue-tied. The authors give us some tips on how to come up with those "aha!" moments that make mentors raise an eyebrow and nod in approval.

Now, let's talk about the qualities of a good mentee. Spoiler alert: it's basically about being someone who is eager to learn without being a total know-it-all. The book shows us that mentors are kind of like the wise old sages from fantasy novels; they have the knowledge, but they can be a bit picky about who they share it with. No pressure, right? If you want to snag a good mentor, you need to be coachable, flexible, and most importantly, don't be a drama queen (sorry, that cancels out 90% of us).

Ellison and Scribner then dive into the mechanics of the mentor-mentee relationship. It's like dating, but less awkward and with more life lessons. They guide both parties on setting expectations and maintaining communication. The truth is, even mentors need a little guidance (who knew?). They also remind us that sometimes the best mentors come from the most unexpected places. So, while you're busy searching for the Gandalf of your life, remember to keep an open mind-you never know when a Jedi Master might pop up when you least expect it.

In conclusion, if you're looking for a roadmap to successfully snag a mentor and actually make the most of that relationship, then Seeking Wisdom is your go-to guide. It's a manageable read filled with practical tips that could save you from the common pitfalls of mentor hunting. Just remember: mentors may not always come with a cape, but they definitely know how to help you level up your game. So grab your sword of determination and prepare to be mentored!

Maddie Page

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