Summary of Me and My Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Understanding and Expressing Themselves by Vanessa Green Allen

Unlock the emotional world of kids with 'Me and My Feelings' by Vanessa Green Allen, a guide to understanding and expressing emotions creatively.

Sunday, September 28, 2025

Me and My Feelings: A Kids' Guide to Understanding and Expressing Themselves, written by Vanessa Green Allen, M.Ed., NBCT

Welcome to the delightful world of "Me and My Feelings," where feelings are the main characters in an emotional sitcom, and guess what? Everyone is invited to laugh, cry, and occasionally cringe at their own emotional journey! Written by the fabulous Vanessa Green Allen, this book is like a cozy hug for kids who are just starting to grasp that they have feelings... and that those feelings can be a complete rollercoaster.

So what's the deal with this book? It serves up a smorgasbord of emotions, helping kiddos navigate that chaotic maze of feelings while also giving them the superpower of expression. Feeling sad? Angry? Happy? There's a chapter for that! It's like an emotional buffet, where you can sample everything from joy to frustration without the fear of judgment.

Our trusty guide, Ms. Allen, breaks down emotions in a way that makes sense to kids. You know, like explaining how "feeling blue" isn't just about forgetting to wear your favorite color; it's about experiencing sadness in a non-threatening way. Genius, right? She even sprinkles in some fun illustrations that scream, "Hey, feelings are actually kind of cool!"

The chapters are packed with scenarios that kids can actually relate to-like what to do when your bestie chooses someone else for their soccer team (cue the drama). Allen also teaches kids how to put their feelings into words, so when they inevitably freak out over a misplaced lunchbox, at least they can articulate, "I'm feeling really frustrated right now!" instead of just flopping on the ground like a sad potato.

Spoiler alert! It's not just about recognizing feelings; it's also about expressing them in healthy ways. Crying into a pillow? Not the only option! The book offers creative activities and tips on communicating feelings-like writing in a journal or drawing pictures. Because if there's one thing we learned, it's that throwing a tantrum often leads to a lot of messy clean-ups (and really awkward stares from adults).

And let's not forget the empathy factor! This masterpiece not only teaches kids about their own emotional landscapes but also nudges them to be aware of other people's feelings. Imagine kids growing up and actually caring about how their friends feel-what sorcery is this? Talk about a future generation of emotionally intelligent citizens!

So there you have it! "Me and My Feelings" isn't just a guide-it's a playful, insightful journey to emotional mastery for the little ones. By the end of the book, they'll not only understand their feelings but will also have a few tricks up their sleeves for expressing them without resorting to interpretive dance (although, let's be real, that could be fun too!).

In summary, if you're a parent or an adult who has ever been in the presence of a child, this book is an absolute must-read. It's like gifting a treasure chest filled with emotional wisdom, so when that inevitable meltdown happens (and trust me, it will), at least you won't have to worry about the little one not knowing why they feel like a volcano ready to erupt! Happy reading!

Author's photo - Maddie Page
Maddie Page

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